Video 28 –
Reclaiming the Inner
In this demonstration...
ow to help someone find the authority. Noticing the authority is often not as obvious as noticing the ‘I’ at first. But it’s easy when you know what you’re checking for, and how to check.
The demonstration also includes...
- When to invite complete integration, when to accept partial or almost complete integration as best for the system in the moment.
- A way to work with partial integration — inviting integration from the other direction.
- Brief description of the 3 directions of integration.
Note on the Demonstration...
At 20:00...We honor a partial integration.
Connirae offers the choice that "It may want to stay at this level of integration and explore how this goes." (He quickly agrees.)
I don't go farther because he quickly and congruently agrees. I don’t want him to experience me as pushing him or creating a sense that he “should” complete the integration now.
At 23:55 Connirae describes and self demonstrates..."for me now it is all happening simultaneously; The falling out, the falling in, and simultaneously the just is-ness. It is a surrendering in all directions. It happens this way because I have many times offered the invitation to fall out, to surrender out, melt, and to fall in. and it is always a feeling for 'Is this what wants to happen?' "